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current mood: thoughtful
current song: Jamal giggling and running around the room in strange circles
So today I managed to catch the child of the infamous neighbors of Isaac out and about without his parents. I've been wanting to catch him to have a small talk with him, but, of course if his parents saw me doing that, they would make a fuss. Luckily, he's allowed to wander the neighborhood as he so desires, even if he is only eight. We had a small chat which took the better part of an hour, mostly on what's acceptable and not acceptable. It took some time to get him to talk, but that was to be expected.
Not only does the kid not get punished at all for the bad things he does, as we all figured, but that's the only way he gets attention. His parents don't give a shit about any of the good or normal things he might do and pretty much ignore him except when he's pulling things like he did with the firework. So that's how he's getting rewarded. Sadly, there's not much I can do about that. I would love to go try and pound some sense into his parents, but I don't think the law would look on me favorably. I also found out that he got told to do focus on Isaac's house. I'm sure they're not used to the resistance they've gotten from us, making that house a primary target.
Drake doesn't really seem to actually want to hurt anyone, at least. He asked if Puppet's all right without prompt. I just have to work on snuffing his tendencies to try and do the things he has to do to get his parents' attention. It's probably going to take awhile, but I did let him know that he's going to have to deal with consequences here. I'm hoping with a steady stream of consequences, he'll stop his current habits. The last thing I want is for him to turn out like the rest of his family. Luckily, with his parents letting him wander the neighborhood, it should give us ample opportunity to actually influnece him positively and give him some of the attention he really should be getting from them.
The biggest problem will be those parents. They won't appreciate it when they find out about it. I'm sure Drake won't be telling them on his own, but the less he does, the more suspicious they'll get, at least after awhile. I'm going to just have to keep a close eye on the entire situation as best I can. At least we have many eyes and ears all over the neighborhood. It makes it much easier. I do think I'm going to get him a water gun to give him after a bit more so he can take time some days to get involved in the ever-going water and goo fights when he might feel like it. I'll happily listen to any suggestions as well. What I could really use is a positive influence for Drake from someone about his age. He could really use an actual friend. I don't know if he's really had one before.
Other than that, things are going well. Doug has been complaining about the cold. Today's high, after all, was only 73 degrees. I had to let him pull out the electric blanket last night since it got down into the forties.




